Hi there,
Yes, I'm talking to you:-)
You, the ambitious, leadership-driven woman in a male-dominated world, often ‘the only woman at the table.’ On one hand, you enjoy it because….less of the ‘crab mentality’ and drama. On the other hand, it puts extra pressure on you. As the only woman, you have to excel. Not just for yourself, but also for all those other women. And let’s not forget about managing your private life…. And let’s not forget about managing your private life….
Hi there,
Yes, I'm talking to you:-)
You, the ambitious, leadership-driven woman in a male-dominated world, often ‘the only woman at the table.’ On one hand, you enjoy it because….less of the ‘crab mentality’ and drama. On the other hand, it puts extra pressure on you. As the only woman, you have to excel. Not just for yourself, but also for all those other women. And let’s not forget about managing your private life….
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Does this sound familiar?
Then you might also relate to the following:
- You feel like you often have to work harder than your male colleagues to receive the same recognition and appreciation. In meetings and conversations with male colleagues, you often find yourself overshadowed, and because you don't speak up, they take the credit.
- You find yourself saying 'yes' to projects and responsibilities that deep down you know don't align with your true self, but you feel pressured to take them on because of your position.
- Despite working hard and achieving a lot in the past years, you still don't receive the salary you deserve, especially compared to your male colleagues. You know you bring value to the company, but negotiating your salary is challenging. It feels like you have to prove yourself even more, and you question whether you are worthy of earning more.
- You've been conforming to masculine qualities for too long because they are mostly valued. You notice that you're losing touch with your feminine side and, in turn, losing yourself just to fit into this male-dominated world. It drains your energy, takes away the joy, and leaves you feeling frustrated.
You've been feeling it for a while:
it's time for a change
But when? Because you’re already busy enough. But if we’re being honest, what you really want is:
- To confidently assert yourself as a woman in a male-dominated world without compromising an ounce of your femininity.
- To make that bold career move with self-assurance, focusing on "what do I truly want" instead of "what am I asked to do" or "what strokes my ego and gives me prestige."
- To present yourself with unwavering confidence, whether it's in front of clients, within your team, or in the boardroom, showcasing your powerful and authentic feminine leadership
- To assertively secure the appropriate compensation; that salary that truly reflects your value but which you have hesitated to claim until now; simply because you're 100% deserving of it
And that’s where I come in.
About
Esther Huijsmans
Hi, I am Esther! As a Feminine Leadership Mentor, I assist ambitious women in leadership positions in male-dominated organisations to powerfully and confidently get to the top without compromising their femininity or sense of selve.
With over 20 years of experience at the highest level in the world of football, I know firsthand what it’s like to be “the only woman at the table” in a male-dominated world. I understand the challenges and can offer you practical possibilities that you may not see on your own; I don’t just coach from the sidelines but draw from my experiences on the playing field.
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S.U.C.C.E.S.S. Programme
Are you a female manager in a male-dominated industry aiming to present yourself with unshakable self-confidence and power? In my 1-on-1 Feminine Leadership Programme, we work together for 6 months to empower you to become that powerful female leader who boldly and authentically claims her place in your organisation.
SCORING BIG
In the Scoring Big VIP Programme, we’ll work together for one month on your network and Personal Brand.
You learn how to confidently present yourself online, in networking events, and during job interviews.
Speaker
At your event
In my signature speech "The Winning Game Plan: Strategies for Female Leaders to Succeed" I share practical tips and inspiring stories to help women discover and harness their leadership potential, break through the glass ceiling, and take our place at the top. Because the time for hesitancy is over, it's time to score! From the "glass ceiling" to "the sky is the limit!"
incompany trainings
As the "only woman at the table" in the world of football, I know firsthand the challenges women face in male-dominated environments. In my InCompany Training, I share my tips and experiences and empower women to confidently present themselves with strength and self-assurance.
What others say
Working with Esther is highly recommended, as she creates a safe environment where you can be vulnerable. This is a prerequisite for growth for me. Esther's strength is that she draws from her own life experiences and empathises well with others' situations. What I appreciate about interacting with Esther is that she listens and reflects. The SUCCESS method is well-suited for working on personal development across various aspects, and its specific themes allow for customisation when you gain an insight you want to work on more. There's plenty of room to express your needs.
In addition to having a lot of fun in the mentorship programme with Esther, it has greatly helped me to recognise and address my own pitfalls. Moreover, I've become much more aware of my own strengths and capabilities, which I now have the courage to express!

Esther is a fantastic coach. She radiates a very positive vibe. With a wealth of experience, she knows how to help you find the right paths; to motivate you to persevere, even when things get tough, and above all, to listen and ask the right questions, leading you to many insights. I've greatly benefited from my journey with her and would definitely recommend such a programme.

The SUCCESS programme is a true investment in yourself, especially if you're a woman working in the sports/events industry. Esther has walked the same path, and she can propel your professional career into a higher gear. Esther shows you what you need to work on; she's clear, practical, and with a variety of exercises (ranging from down-to-earth to sometimes even a bit spiritual), you discover your areas for improvement and receive a nice confirmation of what you're good at.

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